A lot of people in your life, including your friends will do things to try and change you. They will tell you how you can be better. What you need to change in order for people to like you more. I say it's all bullshit. These people are supposed to be your friends and they are telling you how to be more liked. Those aren't your friends! They are just people who have low self esteem and try to bring you down in order for them to feel better about themselves. I once had a friend who told me that I needed to change my wardrobe so that people wouldn't look down on him. Follow that logic. It's simple blueroof nation. You be you. Be the best you, you can be. Don't let anyone, no matter who they are try and change you. Life is short, don't waste it being someone you're not.
Jonathan Gutheinz vents about everything under the sun.